Sunday, August 22, 2010Right. It's not just about love, isn't it?
When girls at age, let's say, 15 until 18.. They fall in love for looks, for face, for maybe many, many things..
But when girls had aged 20 to 23, they had the other criteria for what they looking in boys. Such as.. Maybe, for the pretty girls, it's those who can get them to expensive cafe, to get them fancy jewelry or other things for their present, who can give them a ride in a car..
Wiser and older girls, maybe aged 24 to 26, had to choose their boyfriend wisely, as they not so young anymore. Usually, they realize that their soon-to-be mother in law will not so fancying giving them money, unlike what the mother usually do to pamper their son, and soon trying to see, whether their boyfriend had the abilities to work or not, mostly because they can't stand to imagine if they had to work for their boyfriend. After all, it was male who supposed to stand the family with the material, and female who provide mental secureness and etc etc, right?
Well, for me, I skip my step to the older girl's point of view. Not because I am a materialistic girl who just care for her facial schedule, not that. But alas, I don't want my husband, or even my bf, to lose from me. I am some bull-headed woman, but I trust that someday, somewhere, there will be a person that will make me bow and obey what he says, and I can't do nothing because he's superior than me above all. I trust that, I will not losing, except that it was the way it will do, and it is that I was born under him, but still to be in the same height, that I will surrender and say "I do". I hope.
People do tell, you can never tell the future. It's true. In a side, there's a possibilities of all possibilities to become possible. But there's also some kind of telling named fore-sighting from their traits. If someone had no passion to success, and enjoying living in poverty, you can say there's not much hope in him, right? And then, people who enjoy just to eat at hawker stall, people who doesn't want to earn more, people who enjoy all their time, may seem wise, but it's not wise, at least for me, to live in minority.
Just like all the people say, you can do almost anything without love, but you can do almost nothing without money.. Money can't buy love, but money can buy things that trigger 'love'..
Or maybe like the song sings..
"Sometimes love just ain't enough"
When girls at age, let's say, 15 until 18.. They fall in love for looks, for face, for maybe many, many things..
But when girls had aged 20 to 23, they had the other criteria for what they looking in boys. Such as.. Maybe, for the pretty girls, it's those who can get them to expensive cafe, to get them fancy jewelry or other things for their present, who can give them a ride in a car..
Wiser and older girls, maybe aged 24 to 26, had to choose their boyfriend wisely, as they not so young anymore. Usually, they realize that their soon-to-be mother in law will not so fancying giving them money, unlike what the mother usually do to pamper their son, and soon trying to see, whether their boyfriend had the abilities to work or not, mostly because they can't stand to imagine if they had to work for their boyfriend. After all, it was male who supposed to stand the family with the material, and female who provide mental secureness and etc etc, right?
Well, for me, I skip my step to the older girl's point of view. Not because I am a materialistic girl who just care for her facial schedule, not that. But alas, I don't want my husband, or even my bf, to lose from me. I am some bull-headed woman, but I trust that someday, somewhere, there will be a person that will make me bow and obey what he says, and I can't do nothing because he's superior than me above all. I trust that, I will not losing, except that it was the way it will do, and it is that I was born under him, but still to be in the same height, that I will surrender and say "I do". I hope.
People do tell, you can never tell the future. It's true. In a side, there's a possibilities of all possibilities to become possible. But there's also some kind of telling named fore-sighting from their traits. If someone had no passion to success, and enjoying living in poverty, you can say there's not much hope in him, right? And then, people who enjoy just to eat at hawker stall, people who doesn't want to earn more, people who enjoy all their time, may seem wise, but it's not wise, at least for me, to live in minority.
Just like all the people say, you can do almost anything without love, but you can do almost nothing without money.. Money can't buy love, but money can buy things that trigger 'love'..
Or maybe like the song sings..
"Sometimes love just ain't enough"
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