Wednesday, July 28, 2010People do have their darkest side..
From what I've seen.. Almost all were because friends, not parents. Well, except that the parents were unable to make them feel better. No offense, but I myself think that 90% parents can't do that actually, so let them alone for a while. What I'm trying to say here is that it's not who to blame, but what the kids done in their "runaway". Some socialized kids, trying to get in a relationship, skinship, continuing to making out and making love, and in some unfortunate occurence, making children also.. :p
Some not-so-socialite kids, in the other hand, trying to reach the other grasp, like maybe, gaming, idols, comics, anime, (that, in the light level). Heavier than that, children also tends to finds their own happiness in the wrong way, as a way to show their parents that they don't need them anymore (because of neglected feelings that spreading. Once again, parents not to blame!), and having fun in the way that THEY,not the PARENTS want. Some goes to drinks.. Some goes to clubbing.. Some goes to cigarettes.. Some goes to drugs.. And some does it all, includes sex.
What I'm trying to say, not the conclusion and the answer. At least not now. However, I'm an IT student, not psychology student. But still, I will try to find, at least my own answer..
From what I've seen.. Almost all were because friends, not parents. Well, except that the parents were unable to make them feel better. No offense, but I myself think that 90% parents can't do that actually, so let them alone for a while. What I'm trying to say here is that it's not who to blame, but what the kids done in their "runaway". Some socialized kids, trying to get in a relationship, skinship, continuing to making out and making love, and in some unfortunate occurence, making children also.. :p
Some not-so-socialite kids, in the other hand, trying to reach the other grasp, like maybe, gaming, idols, comics, anime, (that, in the light level). Heavier than that, children also tends to finds their own happiness in the wrong way, as a way to show their parents that they don't need them anymore (because of neglected feelings that spreading. Once again, parents not to blame!), and having fun in the way that THEY,not the PARENTS want. Some goes to drinks.. Some goes to clubbing.. Some goes to cigarettes.. Some goes to drugs.. And some does it all, includes sex.
What I'm trying to say, not the conclusion and the answer. At least not now. However, I'm an IT student, not psychology student. But still, I will try to find, at least my own answer..
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